Creating a Happy, Colorful, Handmade Home & life on the shores of lake superior

February 10, 2017

Lake Life Lately: Behind the Scenes



I find it so interesting how people (myself included!) like to peer into the lives of other people.  Long before reality TV and blogging, my Mama would pop in on family, uninvited, "to see how they really live".  When she visited the townhouse for the first time, she unabashedly peered inside each and every one of my cupboards and closets, eager to ascertain whether I was actually a tidy homeowner, or I has just cleaned for her visit.  When I said the garage was off limits (because the house alarm would sound), she was convinced that's where I was keeping the mess.  I repeatedly asked her not to open the door, but that just made the garage more enticing.  When the house alarm went off at the crack of dawn one morning, I knew that her curiosity had gotten the better of her.

I laughed when I caught her red-handed!  I couldn't fault her, because my favorite hobby was to go for a walk at dusk - so I could nonchalantly peer into our neighbors' homes as I slowly sauntered by.  That was the reason I started reading blogs.  And I know this isn't some weird family quirk because that passion for voyeurism is what makes reality TV such a lucrative industry.

What's funny to me, is that the authenticity and realism we seem to crave is so illusive.  The Hills?  Turns out much of it was scripted!  Blogger homes?  A lot of those Pinterest-worthy images are staged!  Instagram was, for a long time, a place for those candid snaps, but it too has become more glossed over by highly edited and stylized shots.  The "way people really live" is driven deeper into the depths of the internet - now you can find it mostly in short-lived Instagram stories and Snapchat whatevers.  But in this world, where cash is king, there's no conspiracy to hide real life, it's just that glossier depictions perform better: better show ratings, better blog stats.  So do people really want "to see how people really live" after all?

I think about this so much.

I struggle with this as a blogger, because I feel pressure to produce Pinterest-worthy images but I'm still passionate about the function blogging used to serve: a glimpse into real homes, to see how people really live and decorate.  That's more difficult these days and the monetization of blogs blurs the lines even more.
  
The biggest lie I perpetrate is in my food photography and flat lays: I photograph so many things on the floor!  Not so scandalous, I know - until you see how heartbreaking this is for Szuka...


Szuka will come lurking and just hang out, staring longingly at the food that's within her grasp and yet so far away.  I can leave the room and she won't touch it, but she's there.  Watching. 

When I see blogging from her eyes ("why is the food on the floor, human, and why aren't we eating it?") it all seems so strange...

P.S. that's a diabetic-friendly cheesecake!
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October 27, 2015

Bathroom Update: the Tile is DONE and I'm Livid...

Sparkly white tub surround tile

I'm really peeved at the owner of the tile shop we hired to tile the tub surround and floor.  A bunch of careless mistakes were made, plus he gave us incorrect instructions for prepping the space.  I'll flesh out all of the problems another day because there are definitely lessons to be learned from my experience.  Right now I'm too crabby because when I washed out the tub and started to wash off the hazing from the tile, I noticed the worst thing: not only did the he gouge our brand new, perfect acrylic tub, he shoved some grout in there to hide the damage and didn't utter a peep about the damage to us.  Can you believe the dishonesty?!?

Tiler damaged my new bathtub

This tub was not easy to acquire.  After getting two damaged tubs delivered, we finally drove 3 hours to Duluth, MN to pick up a tub in person and drove it the 3 hours home.  When we got it home, we saw its flange was busted so the next day we drove back to the States for another 6 hour round trip and got a new tub - but not before we spent an hour inspecting every inch of it with four anxious salespeople.  We inspected it again when we got it home, and once again when we installed it because we wanted to be certain it was absolutely perfect.  Mid-way through the tiling, I cleaned the drop cloths and cardboard I had provided for the tilers to cover the tub (they showed up with nothing so I had to scramble to find them something).  I also cleaned out the tub, worried they'd grind in chunks of mortar with their boots, and inspected it again then - still no damage. Whew.

In the final two days of the project, the owner showed up to finish up the job and that's when the damage happened.  Instead of fessing up, he and/or his employee tried to hide the damage and then they scooted out of here like their pants were on fire.  Not sure what I'm going to do (and he's certainly not returning my calls).  While I sort it out, here's a look at how the installation progressed and what my tile choices look like installed.

After day one, about half of the tub surround was tiled - the prep work had eaten up much of the day.  I'm  thrilled about the shower cubby - we definitely longed for a cubby in the townhouse.

Installing tile with Schluter Kerdi backing
Schluter Kerdi Shower Cubby Installed
Tile installation
Schluter Ditra

Day two was a stressful day!   One of the tilers sliced into his arm with a chop saw and because he was working here alone, I drove him and his truck to the hospital (which is about an hour away).  I was worried that he might feel faint or pass out on the road.  Then I was stuck in town, so my Dad drove me home and had to turn around and drive the hour back into town in the dark, through deer and moose country.  The next day, the tiler showed up to try to finish the job on day three.  Seriously - even with a big gash!  I was thankful he came back to work because he is a fabulous tile setter.  He was so careful about the tile placement and making sure that the pattern looked good.  He worked tirelessly to avoid any tiny strips of tile and he double checked every decision with me - he's the one who even thought to cover the tub!  Unfortunately, his last day with the company fell on day three of the job, so he couldn't finish the work.

Here was the progress after day three:

Tile progress
Bathtub surround getting tiled
Floor getting tiled
Large floor tiles getting installed

I always wondered how ceilings were tiled, what with gravity and all...

How to tile a ceiling

If I'm being honest, early on in the installation I had some doubts about my tile choice for the tub surround.  It was reading really beige and dull, especially when the naked florescent bulb in the shower was turned on, or the light was really dim.

Sparkly shower tile
Tiling a bathroom
Tiled shower cubby

It turns out it was reflecting some of the orange Ditra left in the tub - which I realized when I stood in front in a bright aqua sweater and the tile looked turquoise!  Now that the bathroom is devoid of junk and everything is grouted it looks like what I envisioned.  I love how it catches the light and just gleams!  Here's a look at the bathtub and surround now:

White tile that looks like mosaic
White shimmery tile

As hoped, the tile has an organic quality, with a nod to mid-century modern mosaic tile - which is what drew me to it.  I still ogle turquoise tile, but this is subtle enough that down the road I could update and refresh this space easily with some accessories and artwork.  Plus - so little grout!!  Even the tilers admitted that the fewer grout lines the better.  We might be in this house for the long haul (which is why the damaged bathtub bothers me so much), so I wanted the most expensive elements to be neutral - but not boring!  I think this tile fits the bill.

Plus it makes an excellent post-it note, apparently:


Days four and five (both half days) consisted of the owner and one employee replacing a flawed tile I pointed out (but not the chipped one I also requested be replaced), finishing up tiling the last few rows of floor tile, and then caulking/grouting everything.

The floor is very simple and I'm so happy that I went with a matching charcoal grey grout because it just makes it look so modern.  There are a few small chips on the floor tile too (argh!) and it's still looking a little washed out and dull because it needs a few more washes before all of the hazing is removed.  I'm hoping the grout just has some dust in it because right now it looks a little uneven.  Le sigh.  But I love the size and colour - it ties in nicely with the fireplace and it will look amazing with the walnut cabinetry. 

Charcoal grey floor tile
Large grey floor tile
Large dar grey floor tile

I should be feeling excited about how everything is coming together, but I'm at a loss because I really don't want to live with a damaged bathtub but I don't really know what my options are here... 

On the bright side, Hubs and I bathed inside the house for the first time in a long time and it felt amazing.  Also, our Kohler fixtures are too gorgeous for words...details soon!
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September 28, 2015

Bathroom Update: I Still Wear a Rain Coat to the Shower

The Bathroom Reno.  Ugh.

Last time I chatted about it, thing were progressing smoothly, if a bit slowly.  We had finally ordered the cabinetry, tile, fixtures, lighting and put a deposit on a gorgeous slab of quartzite: 


By the middle of May, our garage was full of bathroom fixtures: the toilet, faucets, lights, aqua sinks, etc., had all arrived.  It was incredibly thrilling to unwrap the aqua sinks!


Meanwhile, we had ripped out the original vanity, counters, mirror and sinks - here's a reminder:


It was dusty, crummy work - no surprise there - but we had to laugh when we saw the "bandaid" solution the former homeowner had devised to keep the mirror clips from scratching the back of the mirror:


Two of the walls came down and a lot of time was spent moving the wiring for my crazy triple sconce on mirror idea.  We also added another outlet (because we switched from one sink to two, and we figured it would be convenient to each have an outlet nearby) and changed the location of the original one.  Everything took forever because of the careful measuring and triple checking for placement.  Additionally, we had installed some bracing for the floating cabinetry - which also needed to be placed just so.


Then, tragedy struck and we left home suddenly.  We dropped everything.  I was gone for six weeks and whenever Hubby wasn't working, he came to be with me and help my family.

When we finally came home, we were both exhausted.  It took a few weeks for us to get back into the swing of things, but eventually we re-started work on the bathroom.  On the one hand, it was painful because it was the last thing we wanted to be doing, but we couldn't turn back!   We would have much preferred to spend the rest of summer just hanging out by the lake and processing things but, on the other hand, it was nice to have a project to distract us.

The wiring was completed, the blocking was done, and so drywall went back up.


Then Hubby took on the behemoth task of sawing apart and removing our space portal bathtub.  We bought a reciprocating saw for the job and, one broken and one bent blade later, the fiberglass tub and surround lay in pieces in the carport.


Yay!  Progress!


At this point it seemed our luck had turned, because the guesthouse shower - which boasted ice cold water in the spring when we tested to make sure it worked - actually ran hot water!  Hot water!  I hopped in for the inaugural shower and, as expected, it was ice cold.  I shivered my way through a quick shower and was just about to leap out when the water started to get warmer, and warmer and, all of a sudden, was piping hot.

It was such a relief, I almost cried.  I yelled to Hubs, "IT'S HOT!!  I'M SO HAPPY".

Then we hit more delays, as it goes with renovations.  Three damaged bathtubs (that's a story for another day) - and more than a month later - we finally secured a tub in perfect condition.   Meanwhile, we had to keep calling our tiler and cabinet installer and delaying installation, again and again.

While we waited, we kept chugging along and installed the new fan (we previously only had a light in the shower). 


As the pace slowed, we found ourselves with some time on our hands, so naturally I added projects to our to-do list!  Hubby had been reluctant to remove all of the drywall, but I just didn't think the old and new would match up well so I convinced him we should take down and replace the drywall on the window wall too.  Doing this allowed us to remove the old toilet paper roll holder that was bolted  in place, so I'm excited to replace that with something chicer (which wasn't part of the original plan).


We also removed the wall to the right of the tub so we can install a towel warmer!!!  That will be amazing in the winter - I'm so happy we went ahead with that, which is also a little bonus project.  We toyed with the idea, but hadn't committed until we found ourselves with a little extra time. 

When we finally got a tub that wasn't damaged, we installed it and hurried to get the plumbing done.  The plumbing had been off centre to accommodate the shower portal and we wanted to rearrange a bit anyway.  Hubby had to do some framing because the nook for the old shower portal was much larger than we needed.  It took quite a bit of time to get this tub area ready, but now it's in and ready to go!  The installation was a bit tricky, so I'll have a tutorial for that - and a round up of modern bathtub options - soon.

  
I can't wait to show you photos of the walls painted and tile installed...

But don't get excited about the walls - we're re-painting them the exact same shade of white!  I contemplated a soft aqua ceiling, but I think I should wait on any colourful plans until I see how bold the aqua sinks are once they're installed. 


We can see the light at the end of the tunnel because we're no longer ripping things out - we're starting to put the pieces back together.  Getting the tub installed was a major turning point and it really motivated us.  But I have to complain a little because seeing that tub is terribly tempting.  Of course, we're still showering in the freezing cold guesthouse (the water is hot, but the building is not).  Every day I apprehensively check the weather.  The water lines out there aren't insulated and so every fall we drain the lines.  If we get an early frost or freezing temperatures, we might have to endure ice cold showers - or no water at all.  Like totally dummies, we shower at night because I just can't sleep without an evening shower or bath.  Even with this situation, I couldn't switch to morning showers.  Let me tell you, running back from the guesthouse in pajamas, raincoat, (toque on some cooler nights) and rubber boots, in the pitch black, is getting old.  Some nights we've gone out there to shower and emerged in the middle of a crazy thunder shower.  Other nights we hear rustling in the woods behind the guest house and bolt back to the house as if our pants were on fire.  Sometimes we cross paths with a fox and for some reason we've really rubbed him the wrong way because he absconded with one of my shoes from the carport on the weekend.  But sometimes we get our act together and go for a shower when it's light out and wander down to the lake, enjoying a sunset after our shower, which is kind of dreamy on warm nights.


So I really shouldn't complain - it's such a perk that we even have a second shower.  Our only other option would be a quick hose down in the driveway. 

Now that things are progressing again (hope I didn't jinx it!), I'll be sharing little updates on Instagram (#lakehousereno).    
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July 15, 2015

Long Time No See

Hello again!


I can't believe I've been gone for so long...

At the end of May we received some upsetting and shocking news.  We dropped everything, stuffed too few clothes in a duffel bag, ushered a surprised Szuka into the truck, and made our way to Southern Ontario, while my parents hopped on the next available flight.  My family is working hard to maintain some semblance of privacy, so I can't go into detail about the unthinkable series of events that transpired, but I will say that a close family member passed away suddenly.

I only reluctantly returned home at the beginning of July.  We had a rough June.  My family had an overwhelming number of things to get settled and, of course, a lot of grief to work through.  Things are not entirely resolved, so I may disappear again, but for now I'm home.  Even though I'm physically here, it's going to take some time to find my way back to normal.  I'm working on it, taking one day at a time.  The calming effect of the lake is certainly helping.  But I worry about some of my family members and hope that they too can find some refuge.


Thank you so much for all of your kind words here, on Instagram, and via email.  I'm really touched that so many of you reached out to me.  Your kindness has done wonders to lift my spirits.
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March 12, 2015

Slatted Designs and Sheer Laziness

Anna Bode
In Tuesday's post I mentioned that the bedroom is getting some attention.  After making a little progress last year it was sort of abandoned, but I've really been craving more order and storage in there - and that's motivated me to move forward.  We ordered closet doors (finally!), decided on dressers (they're being delivered today!), ordered some fabric samples (possible new curtains?), and even bought another 1960s Hungarian poster to mix up the arrangement a bit (it's being framed right now).  So much excitement after months of heel-dragging.  Buoyed by this frenzy, we decided to tackle a little project: bedside boxes.

I love our bedside tables because my grandpa built them to match the headboard he welded.  The style is simple and airy, and has been perfect for our succession of small bedrooms, but the storage was initially an issue.  We lucked out and found a pair of perfectly sizes storage boxes at HomeGoods.  We were traveling and didn't have measurements, so we just guessed they would work.  Over time the mock croc finish has peeled from the cardboard frame.  They lasted over six years, so I can't complain because they were super inexpensive.  I'll show some before and afters once the boxes are complete, but today I wanted to chat about inspiration that sometimes goes nowhere.

Originally I wanted slatted boxes and spent many hours sketching out a complicated and stunning design.  But then I started to waffle.  I loved the look, but I didn't know if I'd love dusting all of those slats, plus I worried it would compete with our new furniture - which makes a statement of its own.  Then I added up the cost of materials and nearly fainted.  Finally, I asked myself if I wanted to be fussing with 120+ slats when we've got a bathroom to renovate.  I decided to simplify my life and my project.  As an added incentive, I fell in love with a gorgeous sheet of walnut plywood so we're currently constructing a very simple and elegant pair of boxes.  I had already filled my brain (and Pinterest boards) with beautiful slatted designs, so I thought I would share.  I hope you enjoy ogling these room and pieces of furniture as much as I have - maybe you'll be inspired to DIY something slatted and I can live vicariously through you! 
 
Dwell
Via Houzz
Solid Maple Slatted Bench; Etsy (Sold)
Designed for Life
Design Within Reach
Design Within Reach
Freundevonfreunden
Cadence Design Studio
Cadence Design Studio
1st Dibs
Dwell
The Uncommon Common Law
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