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November 16, 2016

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

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This past year I made a concerted effort to focus on my health and wellness, and I'm so happy with what I achieved:  I lost 50 pounds, started doing yoga regularly, and swapped a lot of sweet desserts for sugar-free treats.  In addition to maintaining these changes (which hasn't always been easy), I have some new goals, like getting fit enough to join my municipality's fire department (it's volunteer run) and get a better handle on stress.  While I work on those two goals, I've also challenged myself to make a life improvement that will make reaching all of my health objectives so much easier: get more sleep!  I really want to become a morning person.   

Those days when I wake up before the rest of the world and greet the sun are my most productive and yet peaceful days.  I find that stress is somehow easier to manage on the days when I get up early and I don't have crazy sugar cravings when I get a good night's rest.  I have this feeling that maintaining a great sleep schedule through the upcoming busy season - and the long, cold winter beyond - will be key to dealing with stress and making sure my other health and wellness goals are met.

I've been working on getting into a better sleep routine for awhile and I have made great strides - and a ton of life changes - but there's are a couple of stumbling block:  stress and my weird working hours.  The Universe has definitely thrown a healthy dose of stressful, seemingly insurmountable problems my way but even though I know that worrying about it won't help me, lately I've been kept up at night.  On top of that, I find that because my schedule is so flexible, I can easily slip into a terrible habit of working late at night - that's when the best ideas come to me! - which throws my entire schedule off.  When I was given an opportunity to try youtheory® Sleep Nighttime Powder, a supplement that calms the mind* and provides broad-spectrum support for occasional sleeplessness*, I was definitely intrigued.  Truthfully, I was skeptical but I was also really interested because the idea of being able to drift off into a restful sleep, even on those nights when my worries - or a million creative ideas - keep me awake, sounded like the perfect complement to all of the healthy changes I've been making.  

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

If you've struggled with being an early bird when you're really a night owl (like me), or you've experienced occasional sleeplessness, these are the tips and tricks that have worked for me so far!  This is how I'm slowly becoming a morning person...even when I'm a night owl by nature.

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

Rule # 1: Skip the Caffeinated Drinks in the Evening

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

Caffeine never used to effect m: it never perked me up in the morning (darn) or kept me awake at night.  I was bizarrely proud of the fact that I could drink three cappuccinos before bed and sleep like a baby.  But the last year or so I've noticed that now it does keep me awake at night.  Maybe it's the weight loss?  Maybe I'm just different now that I'm in my 30s?

In order to get a good night's rest, I've had to re-shape my nighttime bed routine and ditch my favorite caffeinated teas and the occasional latte for soothing herbal infusions instead.  Hubby is thrilled because his favorite tea is mint!  

Rule #2: Get Up at the Same Time Everyday

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

This is the toughest rule!  But it's worth it.

I used to set my alarm clock for eight hours after I went to bed.  During the week I'd sacrifice sleep, but on weekends I'd definitely sleep in if I got to bed late.  This varying sleep schedule just made staying up the next night easier, shifting my wake up time and wreaking havoc on my sleep.  I read somewhere that to develop a good sleep habit, it's essential to wake up at the same time every day - even on weekends, even after late nights.  I've been doing that and now sometimes I even wake up before the alarm - which is amazing!  Plus I'm finding my night owl habits are fading a little: I'm not always able to stay up for Saturday Night Live, for example.  This makes me feel old, but rested, come Sunday morning.

Rule # 3: Only Gentle Exercise in the Evening - and NO WORK

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

I have found that gentle exercise - like yoga - is lovely in the evening because it helps me relax.  Even if Hubby and I don't do yoga, I'll often pull out my mat and do gentle stretches - sometimes during a show we're watching or before I go for a bath.  But any other kind of exercise, even just rowdy activities like furiously cleaning or running around with Szuka, are off the table in the evenings because I've learned that I need peaceful projects and activities to ease myself into restfulness.  I used to be one of those nutty people who can start a project at 10pm and work all night if I need to, so I've been working to combat that nature and focusing on not winding myself up in the evening.

For this same reason, I've had to create a work cut off because I found it was too easy to sneak back into my office - especially because it's so inviting now.  Or I'd power through and work on DIY projects late at night.  You won't believe how many times we've kept the neighbors awake with the chop saw at 10pm.  Not working a normal 9-5 job facilitated weird work hours, which exacerbated my weird sleep schedule, so I've tried to put an end to that.  I still occasionally work late to finish a project, but not as often as before.

Rule # 4: Eat an Earlier Dinner

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

I used to get so engrossed in what I was doing during the afternoon and early evening, that I would forget about dinner until it was really late.  These late meals, although romantic (hello lake sunsets!) were lovely in the summer but now that it's pitch black they're just depressing.  So we've been eating earlier and earlier and it's been helping to re-set my circadian rhythm - nothing made falling asleep more difficult than a belly full of zoodles!  Plus, it's made mealtime more enjoyable because we get to enjoy the lake and the view, instead of dining in the pitch black, which is so soothing.

Rule #5: Don't Put Up with Occasional Sleeplessness

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

I used to think that there was nothing that could be done about those nights when I just couldn't fall asleep, but then I got to try youtheory® Sleep Nighttime Powder, which claims to calm the mind*, promote rapid onset of sleep*, improve the quality of sleep*, and support deep restorative sleep*.  It's a naturally flavored (lemon-lime) dietary supplement, with ingredients like magnesium and melatonin, that can be dissolved in juice or water and consumed a half hour before bedtime.  The first time I tried it, it definitely calmed my mind and waves of sleepiness washed over me - it was an incredible feeling.   I couldn't have stayed up late if I wanted to!

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

The night before a trip, I usually toss and turn and sleep about forty five minutes because I'm so worried about sleeping in and missing my flight.  To really test this sleep supplement, I took some before my flight to Toronto last week (for a family related problem).  I was a nervous wreck and so wired, but that wave of calmness washed over me and I actually slept!  Soundly!  I woke up once during the night and immediately fell back to sleep - I didn't count the minutes until I had to be at the airport, like I usually do.  I woke up feeling refreshed, despite the early hour.  I was amazed that this powder worked so effectively for me.

I love having the youtheory® Sleep Nighttime Powder in my arsenal now because it works for me and helps me stay on track when I can't sleep.  It's available online at Costco.com (you don't need a membership, although non-members are charged a 5% surcharge), which, to me, indicated right away that this is a quality product.  Hubby and I are really loyal Costco customers - we even kept our membership when we moved to a Costco-less city.  We regularly shop online and access other members benefits and services, so it's worth it for us.

Rule #6: Put the Cell Phone Away

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

My cell phone is the worst distraction and we all know that the blue light emitted from devices really messes with our sleep cycles.  I've been putting mine down and opting for a magazine or book in the evenings instead and - WOW - does that ever make a difference in how quickly I can fall asleep.  I am occasionally tempted by the siren song of Pinterest but I try to resist because putting down the cell phone definitely has a positive effect on my sleep. 

I still have some work to do, but I'm feeling happier with my sleep habits today.  I feel more rested and energized.  I'm still working on becoming the kind of person who can wake up at 6am every day without an alarm, but I'm getting there, one day (or, I guess, night) at a time.  If this is one of your goals too, check out youtheory® at Costco - and share your tips for a good night's rest in the comments because I'd love to hear them! 

6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl
6 Tips for Becoming a Morning Person When You Really Want to Be a Night Owl

*These statement have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration.  This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease.  
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April 9, 2015

Money Talks: Those Darn Joneses


Anytime I indulge in a little magazine devouring, Pinterest trolling, or blog reading, I see folks undertaking expensive renos, splashing out on pricey furniture, and/or shop-shop-shopping for lots of gorgeous accessories (or craft supplies, to make gorgeous home accessories) - and rarely, if ever, with the accompanying hand-wringing and stress I feel when spending money.

Renovating and decorating (or even crafting) can be frustrating because it seems like I never have enough money (or time).  I try not to compare my life or spending to someone else's, but although budgeting and planning may be done in the logical part of my brain, the feelings about money do not originate from the same part.  I remind myself that choices Hubby and I have made (that bring us so much joy), like buying a more expensive house so we can live lakeside, or paying cash for our truck, changed the game for us.  If we had bought a small home somewhere else, kept our affordable car, didn't have our lovable Szuka (vet bills! food!), things could be different - but I wouldn't want to trade any part of my life.  A part of my brain gets this.  But the pang of, "oh hey, I want that," the whiny little voice complaining, "it looks so easy for them," or the creeping feeling of doubt: "am I doing something wrong if I can't afford this bath reno and a holiday?" aren't always easy to shake. 

I figured that I can't be alone, so I wanted to be open and honest about how stressed I am about renovating the bathroom, and spending money on the house in general.  I want to paint a more realistic picture of what's going on behind the scenes and just admit: sometimes I can't afford to do, buy or even make the things I want.  Plain and simple - no shame

This isn't a pity party for me at all, because I think that being able to chat about any of this - renovating, decorating, even budgeting - is a luxury, when many people are barely scraping by, or worse. 

But you should know that embarking on this bath reno has definitely made me nervous, especially because the estimates we calculated were a little optimistic...


So, we're in a mini spending lock-down until the dust settles.  We're scrimping and saving to top up our "bath reno fund" - now, instead of a Mustang in my wallet, I've got the photo above.  We've already made a few larger purchases from our savings, like closet doors for the bedroom and some fabric for drapes, but it looks like other changes will have to be put on hold until we come out the other side of the bath reno.  Meanwhile, I'm trimming our grocery budget a bit.  I'm trying to avoid the Siren Song of the thrift stores.  I'm finishing up neglected projects - and using supplies we have on hand.  And, other than a quick trip to visit family, vacationing is out of the question for now. 

Truthfully, it isn't just the bathroom reno that has me nervous about spending money.  I started thinking about money differently, and re-prioritizing a bit, after the loss my family experienced.  The funeral home created a photo slideshow for us, which had us pouring over dozens of photo albums.  It made me think about my own life, and finding the right balance of fun and responsibility - especially when it comes to money.  As we flipped through photo albums, no one said, "he had such a great home with a beautifully renovated bathroom," but instead they said, "man, he sure loved to be outside".  Meanwhile, Hubs and I had a truckload full of cabinet samples for our impending bathroom renovation.

I panicked.  

After the funeral, we returned the cabinet samples.  Staring glumly at a stack of wood doors, I turned to Hubby and said, "I don't care about a bathroom reno.  Let's use the money to travel instead.  Let's do stuff".  That night I got stuck inside our space portal shower, which is starting to fall apart and smells like a monkey's butt, no matter how thoroughly and vigorously I scrub it.  Hubby freed me and, naked and freezing, I relented, "okay, maybe a renovation isn't such a stupid idea".

Hubby and I feel very privileged.   Not only do we benefit from certain unearned societal privileges, we have a roof over our heads, warm stew in our bellies at night, our health, and the complete luxury of choosing how to spend our savings.  Should we save the money instead?  Should we blow it on a huge trip?  Retire earlier?  How much interest could we earn?  Mortgage balloon payment?  What if we die tomorrow?  What will be important?  What if we live to be 100?  Man, I'll really hate our current bathroom by then... Should we spend more and get quality?  Why do laminate counters get the cold shoulder? 

Whew.

ALL decadent choices.  Still, I find it very stressful to think about spending a good chunk of change on our home, and yet I wish we had more to spend.  I have a laundry list of things I'd like to change, update, switch up, and improve.  I just have to be patient, and understand that while in some cases we have to wait, we might never have the money for certain things.  That's just life.  And it's a good life!  What we have is enough, everything else is just icing.

I've been getting into the habit of taking some time each day to really appreciate my life, and my loved ones, and to just be grateful.  Truly, I'm so grateful.  And, to be honest, I feel it immediately when I just disconnect a bit: tear my eyes away from Instagram, power down the computer, and close the magazines - when I get away from the daily deluge of inspiring room makeovers, crafty projects, and the endless lists of things bloggers and magazines think we should buy.  Right away I feel my priorities, and my brain relaxes.



I always think of that saying, "yesterday I didn't know it existed, today I can't live without it".

This post in my (very infrequent) Money Talks series is noticeably devoid of any meaningful money-saving tips or tricks but, with this reno looming, and talk of fancy walnut cabinets and quartzite counters, I just didn't want to contribute to any illusion that spending this money on renovations is easy (or necessary). 
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February 15, 2013

Stress Cleaning

I might be alone on this, but sometimes I like to clean or de-clutter so I can relax.  I don't particularly enjoy cleaning (although organizing can be fun), it's just always been something that has felt good to do.  In high school, after my exams were over, everyone knew to leave me alone for a few days while I cleaned my room top to bottom.  If I was pestered, I got a little bite-y.  I needed that time to clean and unwind.  I'm sometimes compulsive about cleaning because I like to live in a clean home (the air feels fresher, like I'm here!), but also because it's something I can check off my to-do list.  Having something "done" feels good right now (as I'm sure it did in high school), because my own research and my work as a research assistant are on-going, which can make me twitch a little (must. cross. off. list).  While I don't enjoy scrubbing the kitchen floor, afterwards I have this ahhhhhh feeling.  I'm so hooked on that feeling, sometimes I forget which things are the priorities (reading) and which are not (precision cleaning the base of the toilet with Q-tips).

I am behind in my magazine reading, as months of subscriptions piled up while I was away, so the other night I was reading my November 2012 Chatelaine.  Canadian choreographer Kelly Konno, who danced for Janet Jackson, said her Dad left her an inspiring note for her one day and the message stuck.  I like the message:


My research is making me feel a little . . . busy . . . right now, so I've been repeating this quote again and again.  I love it!  It motivates me.  But, just to take the edge off, I cleaned and organized the front hall closet last night.  I couldn't help myself (I just crossed that off my to-do list and it felt goood), plus there was a need.  I swear.  I reorganized our coats, short to long (although I really want them colour-coded), to make room for the shoe rack we picked up at Costco the other day (in-store it was only $19.99).  We've been on the hunt for a pretty, affordable one for ages.  Another thing to cross of the to-do list (sah-weet!).  Right now it's filled with Hubby's shoes, which makes him look like such a clotheshorse.  I'm tempted to leave it like this.


Happy two days free to clean weekend!
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