Bathroom Plans: The Slightly More Difficult Choices

Tuesday I showed you some of the elements I've already chosen for our impending bathroom reno: walnut cabinetry, modern fixtures, a toilet with a skirted trap - easy decisions!  The tile and counter-top choices proved to be more difficult, mostly because I struggled with availability and affordability.

I fell in love with Fireclay Tile and was convinced that I was going to order some - until I priced it out.  A rough estimate for what we'd need saw our eyes bugging out over a lot of zeros (about $4,000+ just for the tub surround).  I don't have that kind of money for tile and, if I did, I don't even think I'd want to sink $4000 into something that will get covered by a shower curtain anyway.  (This is my poor loser pep talk.  Of course I would!  Their tile is gorgeous and mod and I want it.) 

Fireclay Tile

Fireclay Tile

Fireclay Tile

Although I'd happily take any style, I wanted to order the Diamond Contour (below), but in all-white.

Fireclay

Although I ultimately had to pass on Fireclay Tile, pining for the styles above altered my plan.  I originally had my eye on some beach-glass inspired tiles, but I realized that I was really gravitating toward organic shapes with more texture than colour.  Yes, although I drooled over beautiful, bold spaces like the bathroom below, ultimately I chickened out.

Apartment Therapy

After I vetoed Fireclay, I had a hard time finding something I liked locally.  (Nothing compares, to you...)  When I found a tile I sorta liked, it would compete with a counter I also sorta liked, and vice versa.  I finally decided to just find a starting point - stop worrying about matching and pairing and just find either a tile or counter that I absolutely loved, and then let that dictate the other choices.  I spent days shuffling from place to place, dejectedly flipping through tile samples and lugging home chunks of rock and porcelain.  Living in a small city can have it's drawbacks because the options are really limited (and some of what is available is kind of dated).  After all of my laborious effort, finally - I found it.  A beautiful piece of quartzite:

The sample called to me from across the room.  Actually a friend (Jazmyn, that's you!), had talked to me about this gorgeous stone awhile ago but I didn't think to search for it.  It's White Fantasy, just one variation of quartzite, which is supposedly as hardy as granite but with a similar look as marble (my nemesis).  If you read Yellow Brick Home, you might have spotted another variety of quartzite.  At a local stone yard, I found a huge piece for sale and I am thinking of already putting a down payment on it so no one else can nab it.  

It looks a bit flat (and cold) in my photos, but in real life there are these incredible veins and layers - it has a lot of depth to it with varying shades of warm and cool grey, balanced by some white.  Some of the veins have a really striking glint to them.  I managed to capture a hint of an elusive glint in this photo:

Hubby likes it because it reminds him of when the ice cracks and breaks on Lake Superior.  To me it looks like a map.  I actually would have loved to find the Aquias Blue quartzite below, but no luck (I think the grey will serve us well, anyway):

Design Manifest

Design Manifest

Because everything is going to be neutral, I am thinking about ordering a pair of soft aqua sinks:

Kohler

Below is a kitchen that, although a really different style, boasts quartzite counters with aqua Kohler sinks. (I really like seeing photos of something similar to what I like.  In my mind I cobble all of these images together and picture my bathroom, all renovated.)

Home Bunch

I like the look of a really tall stone backsplash, but because it really should be a thin piece to look right (I don't want the same thickness as my counters, glued to the wall), I've been told by local installers that it's not doable.  They can't get the quartzite thin enough.  Which is a big bummer. 

Clockewise: Cocolapinedesign; Decorpad; JacquelynClark; ApartmentTherapy

I am thinking of just going without a backsplash, because it can easily be added later and we didn't seem to need one in the townhouse.  Hubby is adamant we at least get a little stone backsplash.  Not sure what to do there because I don't know if I like that stubby little backsplash, but I think tile will be busy above the stone.

Once I settled on a counter, picking tile was easier.  A bit.  I originally envisioned grey tile, but with a stone counter that reads very grey, it seemed a little blah.  I considered a white porcelain, but it just didn't "click" for me, even though it bounced a lot of light around and made the room feel bigger and brighter.

In the end, while pondering various shades of grey tile, I found the perfect floor tile by accident.

The soft black on the right stood out.

It's a really nice black: not too dark or too blue, and it has a nice warmth and softness to it.  It has a subtle variation in colour, like slate.  It seems more matte in photos - in real life it has a perfect not-too-shiny, not-too-flat finish.  The contrast between it and the light grey counters elevates the plan from "everything is grey" land.  I'd love it with a matching grout - the picture below has a similar tile, but with lighter grout.

Plastolux

I actually considered a large black hex (which I would also do with black grout), but I just don't think I love hex enough to commit to it, plus it competes with the tub surround tile I love.

French Fancy

This one was a contender too, because I love the striations and the sutbtle sheen - it's like it was shot with silver - but ultimately I'd love a bigger tile for as few grout lines as possible.

For the tub surround tile, this white tile with a great sheen and a square pattern is my favorite.  When the little irregular squares catch the light, they almost look like square mosaic - which is such a classic tile option - but without the myriad of grout lines. 
     

I really like mosaic tile but I don't like grout, so the tile above will give me the best of both words.

Freshhome

Better Homes & Gardens

WHEW!  And that's how I mostly arrived at decisions about tile and counter.  I really thought I'd have a long short-list today, but yesterday I really focused and narrowed down the many samples I had brought home.  This post feels ginormous.  If you feel like this post was way too wordy, you'll get no sympathy from Hubs, for whom this is just a sampling of the endless chatter about tiles, counters, and cabinets to which he's been subjected.  These feel like huge (expensive) decisions, so I've been agonizing over each one.  In the end, I'm going with my gut: the gleaming small square tile just kept calling to me and I plucked it out of displays in four different tile stores.  I knew I wanted the quartzite the moment I saw it - the rock collector in me won't be happy with a man-made solid surface.  The soft black floor tile just looked so right and stood out to me from an impossibly deep sea of sample tiles. 

We're placing order for the cabinetry and likely the counter soon - but nothing is written in stone yet!  Feel free to chime in - especially if you've had any experience with quartzite or porcelain tile, which are both new to me!  If you're curious about the bevy of inspiring bathrooms I've been digitally hoarding, take a look at my Bathroom Reno Plans board on Pinterest.  You can also follow me on Instagram, where I recently shared a beautiful teal tile (that, sadly, didn't make the cut), and other sneak peeks.

Here's a look at the samples all together - you'll have to envision a pair of soft aqua sinks. 

Now, time to lug 100 pounds of tile samples back into town...

Townhouse Bathroom Reno Do-Over - Candid Thoughts on a Bathroom Reno

I've really enjoyed being able to share the lakehouse transformation with you since Day One - actually, since before Day One, when this place was still just a twinkle in our eyes.  Part of my excitement stems from missed opportunities in the townhouse.  I knew next to nothing about DIY/design blogs when we were elbows deep in stinky carpet and splattered paint.  It wasn't until after the dust had settled on our more major renovations that I actually had the time to read blogs and thought, "oh crap, these would have been useful to read before we started renovations," followed by, "oh hey, blogging looks like fuuuuuun!"  Although I've since shared a bevy of projects, I rarely talked about the townhouse bathroom renovation (except for this post on installing linoleum, our simple DIY medicine cabinet door, and adding some yellow accents - which I did).  With another bathroom reno on the horizon, I've been thinking a lot about what we liked about the townhouse bathroom reno, what we hated about it, and things we learned.  So here's a timely blast from the past: a long over-due peek into the renovation process, with a list of pros and cons for everything from our bathtub choice and tile surround to our marble counters - all brought to you by the magic of hindsight.

Here's what the townhouse main bathroom looked like when we moved out of the townhouse:  

It was quite horrifying when we first toured the property.  The beige-ish pink fixtures were old and perma-dirty, the toilet didn't work, the cabinetry reeked (I shudder to think of what).  We knew right away that we would renovate it before we even moved in.  It was kind of a shame that it was in such poor condition, because I could have rocked that pink.  Maybe.

Okay, maybe not.

Having never tackled a bathroom reno before, Handy Hubby and I hired out the replacement of the bathtub and tile surround.  We knew everything else would be manageable, but I pictured the two of us sending a bathtub crashing down the stairs.  We didn't know if we'd recognize water damage, if there was any.  We also didn't trust that we could tell if the subfloor was strong enough to hold the extra weight of our deep soaker tub.  I've since seen some truly heinous DIY tub installs around blogland, so we've always been happy with the decision to hire that part out.  Basically we bought the tub, tile and installation as a package deal from an Ottawa-based bathroom and kitchen company and they contracted out the actual work.  We liked the team who did the work, but we had issues with the sales team who made mistakes, blamed me, charged me, and then fell off the face of the earth when I complained.

We overhauled the rest of the bathroom ourselves and made sure we removed the vanity and toilet before the tub was due for demolition, just to make things a little easier.  We were lucky because family was visiting and helping with the renos (a "renocation," as my Dad calls it), so we were able to shower at their hotel each night, but we slept at the empty house with nothing but an air mattress and many bags of Doritos.

I found some photos (from almost five years ago!!) of the tub installation process. 

The speed with which they worked definitely gave us totally unreasonable expectations about how fast our own tiling would go in the kitchen, when we replaced the counter and backsplash the following spring.

The Bathtub + Tile Surround:

PROS:

Ultimately we were really happy with hiring out some of the work.  The tub install was done well - and very quickly (just a few days).  The salesperson upsold us on a deep, super comfy, soaker tub and it was such a fabulous purchase.  Water was included in condo fees in the townhouse and now that we're on a well and conserving water, I'll always think fondly about those water-wasting days and long, relaxing soaks.  The removable shower head was on my must-have list and I definitely want one of those again because I shower at night and wash my hair in the morning (otherwise it's toque-flat, no matter the season).  We also bathe Szuka in the tub and it's handy for that as well.

As an added bonus, the woman on the reno team was once married to a pretty famous Canadian actor!  Like a jerk, I Googled him immediately and, sure enough, saw photos of them on red carpets. 

CONS:

I picked the least imaginative tile for the tub surround.  I don't know what I was thinking.  The tub was a "package deal" and this tile came with it.  I had the option to swap out something else and pay the difference but it was overwhelming.  We were in Ottawa, flipping through a million tile samples but running out of time before we had to drive back to Kingston and then on to Thunder Bay.  We were making snap decisions and I just opted for the white tile in the package.  I regretted not choosing a classic white subway tile (which I ultimately chose for the townhouse kitchen).  I asked them to install it like subway tile but the salesperson scoffed at my "ridiculous idea".  I still think it would have looked cute.  While we lived in the townhouse,  I had to remind myself daily: "it's new, it's clean, it's better" because I just hated the tile so much - that's why this is the first time you're actually seeing it!  This time around I'm considering my tiling options more thoroughly.  Maybe a little too thoroughly.




Aggravatingly, there was nowhere to put shampoo or soap - I wish we'd been upsold on some kind of cubby or tiled nook because this particular tub had no ledge!  We stuck on a suction soap dispenser, which I glared at every morning and night for four years.  A tiled cubby like this is now high on my list of must-haves.

After the tub was done, my poor Papa volunteered to scrape away the old linoleum flooring.  We had started before the crew showed up but it was super sticky so we waited until they left to resume.  Then Hubby installed the vinyl flooring, which we talked about in this old post.

Vinyl Flooring:

PROS:

Vinyl flooring gets a really bad rap for looking and feeling cheap.  Certainly there are a lot of cheap and ugly options out there, but I loved our vinyl flooring.  It took me awhile to find it (it's from Home Depot) but literally everyone who visited complimented it - some people got down on their hands and knees for a feel because they didn't believe it was vinyl.  (Luckily, it was easy to keep clean!)  It was a snap to install and incredibly affordable, plus it wasn't slippery with wet feet.  After four years it looked brand new.

CONS: 

For resale, "vinyl flooring" isn't the sexist thing to add to an MLS write-up but no potential buyer ever complained once they saw how nice it looked.  But still, "ceramic tile" or "stone tile" has more caché. Vinyl also precludes in-floor heating, but that wasn't something we considered anyway.

For the vanity we chose a now-discontinued model from Home Depot.  It was a nightmare ordering it and we had multiple delays as we struggled to get the correct pieces.  We eventually gave up and just kept what we received.  This vanity was a great choice because the middle section fit perfectly in the half bathroom and for the main bathroom it was a perfect size when flanked by two sets of drawers.  I liked that both townhouse bathrooms on the second story, even though they were different sizes, had the same vanity (and counter, sink, fixtures, toilet, and flooring) for a cohesive look.

We topped both vanities with a marble counter and under mount sink offered with the modular cabinetry, which was pretty inexpensive.  The faucet was from Canadian Tire.  The vanity came with brushed hardware but for the tub install we'd picked chrome.  We chose chrome for the sink faucet but I'm not one for mixing metals, so this is another example of why I should have paid more attention to the finishes.

Vanity + Marble Counter

PROS:

The modular aspect of the vanity was great and so was the value.  The ease of everything together (vanity, hardware, sink, and counter) was great for first-time renovators, like us.  The white finish was a classic look, as was the shake-style door - although I grew tired of it immediately.  I tried to pick traditional/modern updates to suit the house and not turn off any future homeowners.  I would have chosen more modern things for myself, but knew that potential buyers may not have the same taste.

The marble counter felt fancy at first, even though I disliked the profile of the counter.  It was a selling point for resale and helped brighten the small, window-less bathroom.  It was certainly the star of the bathroom and added a small touch of luxury to any otherwise budget-friendly home.  I also liked not having any tile around the vanity because I thought it was a really clean, modern look.  I'd consider something similar again.

CONS:

The melamine cabinetry was, sadly, not the best quality and was starting to show wear after only a few years.  I'd never go with cheap melamine for a humid area again.  This vanity had the option of adding the toe-kick or leaving it off for a leggy look.  I liked that it looked kind of like a re-purposed dresser - until the first time I had to lie on my tummy and shimmy my arm and a rag under the vanity to clean.  Now I'd like a floating one because it combines my two loves: a more modern look, plus I can easily run a mop (or a Roomba) under there with minimal effort.

The marble was also nightmare to keep clean.  In the beginning I thought it was the best thing ever and decided every surface I ever own should be marble from that point on, but I quickly learned that marble was not my friend.  It stained easily - even from the water - and needed lots of care and cleaning.  There was a huge variety in the quality of marble cleaners, and I spent way too much time researching cleaning and then putting my research to good use.  It's a wonder I got any work done on my dissertation.  The counter discoloured when I even looked at it wrong.  I absolutely hate marble now; although I love the look I'd never choose it for any surface that sees a lot of use.  An end table? Sure. A kitchen counter? Nope, not for me.



Shower Rod + Curtain

PROS:

I loved our Marimekko shower curtain, which wasn't cheap but looked brand new four years later - and cleaned up in the washing machine so easily.  I'm always relieved when paying a bit more for something actually means getting better quality.

CONS:

I just never loved the look of the shower rod so low.  I really like the ceiling-height ones I've seen, with extra-long shower curtains, but I had no clue they existed at the time.  I really miss a shower curtain (cleaning the glass on our portal is no fun) and I'd like to go back to this option instead of the glass encased shower I thought I'd prefer.  Living with the portal helped me realize this, so I'm really happy we didn't decide to renovate right away.  This time around, though, let's get that curtain up high!



Towel Bar:

PROS:

You might lose respect for me if you knew how long I searched for a double towel bar.  It's the best and when we replaced the towel bar in the lakehouse, I opted for a more modern version of the double.  It's perfect for drying two towels at once in a small space.  Because our lakehouse bathroom is a smidge larger I'd really love a towel warmer because it will feel so indulgent to be ensconced in a toasty towel.  

I definitely learned a lot and I hope that the next bathroom we overhaul will be perfect.  I'm going to be really honest and admit that I'm petrified of making mistakes again - of spending a whack of money and still not being happy.  In the townhouse we always knew we'd be moving soon-ish and I knew that we'd recoup the cost of the reno (we did), but we've hunkered down in the lakehouse for an indefinite amount of time.  Things need to be perfect.

At least now I know that:

• It's smart to hire out if doing the job seems too daunting
• Marble is not my friend
• A ceiling height shower curtain and removable shower head are my must-haves
• A vanity on legs makes cleaning a chore
• Sometimes the salesperson is right (miss you, soaker tub)
• Sometimes the salesperson is negligent (where does the soap go, huh?)
• When in doubt, choose white subway tile

Most importantly:

• Carelessly picking things = a room I don't love
• Picking things I think other people will like = a room I don't love
• A room with hardly any aqua = a room I don't love

Do you have any bathroom renovation hits or misses of your own? I'd love to hear your own experiences (please feel free to include a link in the comments if you have a blog post you'd like to share).

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